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#  Self-Pleasure Products This Sex Expert Can’t Be Without  


If there’s anyone who knows what goes into achieving a good orgasm, it’s probably certified clinical sexologist Megwyn White. As director of education at sexual wellness brand Satisfyer and a licensed sex coach, she’s on a mission to make self-pleasure more accessible. From toys to accessories, these are her bedroom essentials…  


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### Satisfyer Kegel Balls, $19.95

Pelvic floor training needn’t be complicated. I combine clitoral air pulse stimulation with one of these Kegel balls inside – this has a blended orgasm effect with the weighted ball stimulating the G-spot. When you use the air pulse technology, it activates blood flow and engorgement of your internal erectile tissues, which causes intense contractions. Once I feel those muscles working, I activate them further to create a heightened orgasm and connection to my pelvic floor.  
  
Available At [Satisfyer.com](https://us.satisfyer.com/us/products/kegel-balls/strengthening-balls/)



  

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### Satisfyer High Fashion, £70.51

Made with brushed aluminium, this toy has a sleek look. It features Satisfyer’s patented air pulse technology, which indirectly stimulates the clitoris with pressure waves. The metallic design is also great for exploring temperature play – try experimenting with both warm and cold temperature. You can even place the toy in a bucket of ice cubes and then explore your vulva with the vibrations on.   
  
Available at [Amazon.co.uk](https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B07KB2K4LK/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1634&creative=6738&creativeASIN=B07KB2K4LK&linkCode=as2&tag=sheerluxe-21&linkId=c238c94f76b3a348933bc0b4a97b0262)



  

 

 

 



 

 

 


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### NJoy Fun Wand, $95

This is one of the most versatile sex toys I own. It’s made from weighted stainless steel, which is great for adding intensity to play, and has two ends which can be used for either G-spot stimulation or anal play. The weight adds to the feeling of a more human connection, and the result creates a natural blended orgasmic effect, which is great to release built-up sexual tension.  
  
Available at [njoytoys.com](https://www.njoytoys.com/product/fun-wand/)



  

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### Zumio, $115 (was $135)

This unusual toy features a rotating spiro tip, which is responsive to touch with an incredibly fast rate of rotation with light pressure, and a slower touch when deeper pressure is applied. It’s very intuitive and gives you the opportunity to explore the vulva and clitoris with accurate precision. Since using this toy, I’ve unlocked deeper connections in my body and experienced new sensations. If you prefer external stimulation, this is one to try.  
  
Available at [MyZumio.com](https://myzumio.com/shop/zumio-s/)



  

 

 

 



 

 

 


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### LELO Tara, £109

This is a fantastic rotating vibrator that’s excellent for G-spot and perineal stimulation. A clever hands-free toy, try pairing it with other clitoral stimulators like wands or lay-on vibrators. It hits all the right spots, and being fully waterproof, is great to use in the bath for orgasmic release. You can use it with your partner or alone – it’s seriously versatile.   
  
Available at [Lelo.com](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=41168&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lelo.com%2Ftara)



  

 

 

 



 

 

 

 


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### Satisfyer Wand-er Woman, £32.86

A wand toy is a bedroom must-have, and Satisfyer’s extra-large wand offers a full-body experience. The rounded head has a pivoting feature, making it excellent for angling into pressure points – whether for massage or intimate play. And for those that like indirect clitoral stimulation, this wand ticks all the boxes thanks to deep, rumbling vibrations. The options are endless with this toy – not only is it waterproof, but it also offers 50 different vibration combinations made up of ten rhythms and five intensities.   
  
Available at [Amazon.co.uk](https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B082147GS2/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1634&creative=6738&creativeASIN=B082147GS2&linkCode=as2&tag=sheerluxe-21&linkId=35326c6aa2c9a515b9ff3e65563feb33)



  

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### New York Biology Massage Oil, $14.95

This is my favourite massage oil – it’s natural and lightweight with just the right amounts of essential oils to be both soothing and stimulating. Ginger is an ingredient to look out for in the bedroom – it’s a natural and safe way to explore supporting blood flow for heightened sensitivity.   
  
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### Foria CBD Suppositories, £49.99

Each of these suppositories delivers 100mg of broad-spectrum CBD right where you need it – they are great for relief during your period or for local muscular relaxation and inflammation relief. If you suffer with vaginismus, they are worth a try, as they’re a convenient way to relax the muscles and ease the intensity of penetration.   
  
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### Satisfyer Curvy 3+, £38.22

If you like a toy that offers targeted air pulse stimulation, the Curvy 3+ is one to try. It serves not only the job of stimulating the clitoris but also doubles up as a lay-on vibrator. The ergonomically curved shape is ideal for exploring the vulva externally, while 11 pressure wave intensities and vibration settings simultaneously target the clitoris. You can even connect the toy to an app to turn your phone into a remote control – ideal for long-distance relationships.

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### Oskia Massage Candle, £49

I really rate a massage candle – they’re an ingenious way to instantly create a warming massage effect. I enjoy self-massage after a bath or shower, ideally using a candle with a soothing and sweet aroma.   
  
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