Breadcrumbs # Hiring A ‘Strictly’ Pro For Our First Dance & Getting The Ick From Singing Voice Notes This week on the SheerLuxe Podcast, Charlotte Collins is joined by Josh and Hodge to discuss everything from family holidays and the latest aesthetic treatments to the TV shows everyone is talking about. Hodge shares stories from a half-term trip to the Dolomites and Venice, before the trio debate whether ‘Black Doves’ or ‘The Diplomat’ deserves the binge-watch crown. They also discuss Jon Ronson’s new book ‘The Castle’, current wardrobe favourites and, in a more serious conversation, bystander culture, consent and the importance of male allies in the wake of recent high-profile cases. Plus, there are listener dilemmas covering everything from awkward voice notes to wedding first-dance regrets. 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