Self-Pleasure Products This Sex Expert Can’t Be Without

Self-Pleasure Products This Sex Expert Can’t Be Without

HANX is the sexual wellness brand with a difference. Created by childhood friends Sarah and Farah, HANX is the first fully vegan, sustainable condom created from a women’s point of view. On a mission to shift the narrative around sex and female pleasure, this is a brand we can get on board with. We caught up with HANX’s head of customer happiness, Olivia, to discover the toys and accessories she can’t be without. Here are her bedroom essentials…


Womanizer Premium, £169

I love anything Womanizer makes – its products not only look good but feel good. They are on the pricey side but, if you can save up, they’re worth every penny. Womanizer also makes pieces for couples. Available at


Bondara Bullet Vibrator, £9.99

If you’re looking for a slightly more affordable vibrator, take a look at Bondara. It sells everything you could possibly imagine when it comes to sex toys and accessories – and they’re all reasonably priced.

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Coco De Mer Teach Me A Lesson Ruler, £12

Buying a vibrator doesn’t have to feel furtive or embarrassing – I really recommend going to Coco de Mer in Seven Dials, where you get knowledgeable, personable service to find the perfect piece. Your sexual wellness is just as important as your mental and physical wellness. This ruler is a fun accessory while working from home.

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Sex by The School of Life, £20

I can’t wait to get stuck into this. It’s a deep dive into the ‘veneer of openness’ around sex. With such a gorgeous cover, it’s the perfect addition to my coffee-table collection of intellectual reads.Avaialble at


Coco de Mer Mia Bodysuit, £42 (Was £60)

Wearing something a little special helps to get me out of my head and into a more positive state of mind, and this bodysuit is just the right balance of alluring and comfortable. Just remember to slip a sweater on before you join that pending Zoom call.Available at


Earl of East Scents of Normality Candle, £45

I’m a big fan of candles for setting the mood, and am always on the hunt for a new boudoir candle. This new candle collection takes inspiration from the places we most missed in lockdown – I love them all.Availble at


Coco de Mer Enraptured Figment Massage Oil, £30

This smells and feels beyond luxe, and will look great on your bathroom shelf. Virgin coconut oil also makes a great massage oil – it doesn’t contain questionable ingredients like a lot of other more mainstream massage oils.Available at


Tracey Cox Supersex G-Spot Vibrator, £19.99 (Was £24.99)

This is definitely worth a try if you’re keen on a toy with plenty of options: seven patterns and three speeds is enough to keep you entertained on a rainy weekend.Available at


Kip Lipstick Vibrator, £78

I'’m a sucker for sex toys in aesthetically pleasing colours. This is USB rechargeable, which totally ticks my ‘executive realness’ fantasy and doesn’t look out of place with my vast collection of beauty blenders.

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Tracy’s Dog Sucking Vibrator, £44.99 (was £49.99)

If you’re an oral sex kind of person, Tracy’s Dog make an amazing toy which stimulates your g-spot and simulates the sensation of someone licking or sucking your clitoris.Available at

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HANX Condoms, from £4.99

These really are the best condoms to use. They feel great, are vegan, cruelty-free and all-natural, with no nasty spermicides or anaesthetics. They’re even biodegradable.Available at

HANX Lubricant, £14.99

We should all use lube to enhance sex, and HANX’s recently launched lube gets my vote. It’s natural and not oil-based, so you can use it with condoms and toys. It’s also pH balanced (it won’t affect the vaginal flora), non-irritant and as silky smooth as they come.Available at



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