
Top Tips For Planning A Great Hen Do

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DO Keep It Short & Sweet
Unless it’s the very first hen for this friendship group, chances are most guests won’t be keen to sacrifice an entire weekend – especially if the wedding, and other associated events, demand plenty of time and money. We recommend one day and one evening only, with the night before (or a sleepover the night of) reserved just for the bridesmaids. That way, you keep the bride occupied and happy, while everyone else can still enjoy their time off.
DO Build Up To A Night Out
If you’ve opted for a two-nighter instead of one, keep the first night chilled and save the hardcore partying for night two. A group of hens getting wrecked on night one is a guaranteed way to make the second evening a bit of a let-down – start with a relaxed, boozy dinner and build up to round two.
DON’T Charge A Fortune
Keeping it short and sweet should naturally keep costs down, but even so, do be mindful of budget. Weddings are expensive businesses, and few hens have hundreds to spend on multiple dos a year – plus, it only takes some careful planning to organise something that’s fun, but still affordable for all.
DO Lay Out The Costs In Advance
It’s frustrating for both you and your guests to keep requesting additional money in the build-up to a hen. Budget carefully in advance so you can let attendees know the full cost from the outset – and, specifically, what this will include. In our experience, guests are a lot happier if they can see where their cash is going.
DO Give Guests Travel Options
This one applies more to grown-up hens. In your early 20s, it might be fun to take a crawling coach to some far-flung destination, but it’s a more pleasant experience for everyone if they have the option of driving themselves or booking their own trains. We suggest taking a poll in advance – those who wish to travel as part of a group can have that cost built in, while those who opt for a quieter or speedier form of transport can cover their own fares.

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DON’T Keep Everyone In The Dark
Naturally, you want to keep the bride from discovering the plans ahead of time, but guests are often more comfortable knowing the arrangements in advance. A slick – but confidential – itinerary not only stops everyone stressing about the unknown (and what to pack), but also gets your guests excited for the event.
DO Think Outside The Box
Tempting though it may be to default to the obvious, getting a hen right comes down to thinking about what people actually want to do. While it’s important to keep the bride happy, you’re playing with people’s time and money – so try to come up with activities that are fun, different and entertaining for everyone.
DO Speak To The Hen In Advance
From whether she wants her mum involved to her rules on strippers, it’s important to chat to your hen to see how she pictures her special weekend panning out. Don’t let her become too involved – you still want it to be a surprise – but it’s safer to have her non-negotiables down from the word go.
DON’T Start Too Early
If it’s just a one-day event, it makes sense to pack in as much as possible – but don’t throw in superfluous activities just to pad out the day. Chances are your guests will have already had a mani or can feed themselves before the event starts – make sure everything you do is fun, relevant and necessary.
DO Know Your Demographic
We’ve heard so many stories of pregnant women being dragged on hens filled with cocktail making, partying, assault courses and more. Bear in mind who’s attending the hen and plan accordingly – likewise, save Mr & Mrs for when mum’s gone home.
Now, a few ideas to get you going…
FOR A CLASSY NIGHT OUT:
Ronnie Scott’s
For a stylish hen night full of style and glamour, Ronnie Scott’s in Soho is a perfect pick. This legendary jazz club oozes sophistication, as well as offering world-class live music, expertly mixed cocktails and a cosy intimate vibe. Whether you’re sipping champagne over a candlelit dinner or getting lost in the energy of a late-night jam session, it’s the ultimate spot for a chic yet lively celebration. With its rich history, top-tier service and effortlessly cool atmosphere, Ronnie Scott’s guarantees a night of smooth tunes, great drinks and unforgettable memories.
Visit RONNIESCOTTS.CO.UK
FOR SINGING & DANCING:
Mamma Mia! The Party
If you’re after a hen night filled with laughter, dancing and pure feel-good vibes, Mamma Mia! The Party at The O2 is a must. This immersive experience transports you straight to a Greek island taverna, where ABBA’s greatest hits set the scene for a night of music, dining and entertainment. Sing along, dance on the tables and soak up the energy as the story unfolds around you. With crowd-pleasing Mediterranean food, endless party spirit and plenty of chances to let loose, this is a great option for any bride-to-be and her crew.
Visit MAMMAMIATHEPARTY.CO.UK
FOR MUSIC & FILM BUFFS:
Come Alive: The Greatest Showman
If your hen is into show tunes, Come Alive – The Greatest Showman Show is full of energy and unforgettable entertainment. The live performance brings the magic of the hit film to the stage, complete with vocals, choreography and a circus-style atmosphere. Expect big anthems, high-energy performances and a night that will have you singing, clapping and cheering along.
Visit COMEALIVESHOW.COM
FOR WINE LOVERS:
Vineyard Tour
A vineyard tour is a solid choice for a hen celebration, combining country views, good wines and plenty of laughter with the bride-to-be. Top English vineyards like Gusbourne, Tillingham and Ridgeview offer immersive tastings, expert-led tours and the chance to sip award-winning bubbles in beautiful surroundings. Whether you’re strolling through sun-drenched vines, enjoying a long lunch with perfectly paired wines or indulging in a private tasting, time at a vineyard offers the perfect blend of elegance and fun.
Visit GUSBOURNE.COM, TILLINGHAM.COM & RIDGEVIEW.CO.UK
FOR SOME R&R:
The Ned Spa & Stay
For a chic and indulgent hen do, a spa retreat at The Ned is the ultimate way to unwind in style. Start the day with luxurious massages and facials, then head to the rooftop pools, all while taking in stunning views of the city. After a day of pure relaxation, slip into something glamorous and toast the bride-to-be with cocktails in the late-night bar, where live music and a buzzing atmosphere set the perfect tone for an unforgettable celebration. Whether you're easing into the weekend or winding down after a big night out, The Ned offers the perfect mix of pampering and party vibes.
Visit THENED.COM
FOR A LUXE EXPERIENCE:
Thames Limo
Set sail for an unforgettable hen do with a private boat charter along the Thames. As you cruise past London landmarks like Tower Bridge and the London Eye, enjoy chilled champagne and breathtaking views of the city’s skyline. Whether you opt for a chic yacht or a sleek cruiser, this luxurious experience offers the perfect blend of elegance and fun. With personalised cocktails and canapés, it’s an exclusive and stylish way to celebrate the bride-to-be.
Visit THAMESLIMO.CO.UK
FOR SOMETHING GLAM:
Cabaret At The Kit Kat Club
Begin your hen celebration in style with an evening at the Cabaret at the Kit Kat Club. Immerse yourselves in captivating performances, a vibrant atmosphere and exquisite costumes, all while indulging in bespoke cocktails and a luxurious dinner. This remarkable night of entertainment and elegance sets a glamorous, Gatsby-esque tone, ensuring an unforgettable experience for both the bride-to-be and her guests.
Visit KITKAT.CLUB
FOR A RAUNCHY NIGHT OUT:
Magic Mike
No hen do round-up would be complete without mentioning Magic Mike. If you're looking to spice up your night, this unforgettable night out is a must. Choose from a range of tailored packages to suit your group’s vibe, whether you want a VIP experience with front-row seats, a champagne reception or even a meet-and-greet with the cast. The show is a high-energy mix of jaw-dropping dance routines, charismatic performances and plenty of eye-candy. Add some sparkle to your celebration with exclusive cocktail packages or a private booth to keep the party going throughout the night.
Visit MAGICMIKELONDON.CO.UK
FOR A FEEL-GOOD NIGHT:
Abba Voyage
For a hen do with plenty of feel-good vibes, ABBA Voyage is an unmissable experience. Sing your heart out, dance like a ‘Dancing Queen’ and revel in pure nostalgia as the iconic band is brought to life through stunning digital avatars and a live band. With an electrifying atmosphere, epic singalong moments and a buzzing dancefloor, this is the perfect way to celebrate the bride-to-be in style. Grab your sequins and channel your inner ‘Super Trouper’.
Visit ABBAVOYAGE.COM
FOR A COUNTRY ESCAPE:
Day Trip To Soho Farmhouse
Soho Farmhouse in Oxfordshire is the ultimate country retreat. The bride and hens can stay in chic rustic cabins, unwind with spa treatments and take a dip in the heated outdoor pool. Spend your days cycling the scenic estate, sipping cocktails by the firepit and indulging in farm-to-table feasts. And don’t miss a leisurely lakeside brunch – best enjoyed with a glass of fizz.
Visit SOHOHOUSE.COM
FOR FOODIES:
Borough Kitchen Cookery Classes
Found in Chiswick, Hampstead, Islington and Battersea, Borough Kitchen cookery classes are a fantastic group activity. Savoury sessions end with everyone tucking into their creations while baking and pudding classes let you take home your sweet treats. You can even book a private session for a more exclusive experience.
Visit BOROUGHKITCHEN.COM
FOR A WHOLESOME ACTIVITY:
Petersham Nurseries
Flower arrangement workshops are the perfect pick for a wholesome hen do. In a vase arrangement class at Petersham Nurseries, you’ll learn the art of floral design while creating beautiful bouquets – and enjoying quality time with the bride and her besties. All materials are recyclable and biodegradable, so you can feel good about your eco-friendly creations. Whether you’re a floral pro or a beginner, it’s a fun and relaxing way to bond and take home a gorgeous keepsake from the day.
Visit PETERSHAMNURSERIES.COM
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